Management Stress for Teens

Teenagers who lived with a myriad of activities, ranging from school, homework, study groups, play with friends, to gather with family is not a little easy things that must be passed by children their age. Some of these teens may experience stress that they were not aware that they are experiencing stress. And some other teens who already suffer from acute stress have a negative effect like not want to go to school, always seem frightened by a particular textbook, and do not want to play with children his age. Behavior like this really is a natural thing as long as he can get through it. The emergence of the stress caused by hormones that increase so that they will lose control of themselves, that if under normal circumstances they are able to control it. The role of parents is very large if their teenager is in a state of stress.

For example, Andy, a 14-year-old teenager is a student who is very clever and accomplished. But when he began burdened with school work a lot and also additional courses are also baseball competition with a club sport at his school, he began often locked himself in his room and rarely talk with their parents. According to Andy's parents, she like to see Andy has a split personality because sometimes he looks like a cheerful and no problems whatsoever, but more at a time when he was so moody and not talking.

Teen behaviors that often make parents upset is that sometimes rebellious nature cannot be tolerated by parents. Teenagers tend to do what is prohibited by parents and whatever they like, teenagers rarely think long about what they do. They openly rebelled, and break the limit set of parents.

When your child is still kid, maybe you have a habit of kissing his forehead and say the word love each drive them to school, but now when your child's adolescence you no longer possible to do it. In general, teenagers do not like being kissed by her parents in public, and they also began to have different behavior as like lock myself in my room to access the friendship sites on the Internet, calling friends for hours, and go with friends until late at night. This may be a difficult time for parents. But you do not need to worry; this is quite normal and your monitor only. As long as he does not act negatively then you do not need to scold.

Allow them to do what they like, you can point to his pleasure does not lead to a negative direction. Because the more you forbid it, they will increasingly struggle. The better your treatment to them, then their attitude will be calm and showed no resistance to you.

Teenagers already have a desire to be able to make their own decisions and sometimes parents have not given the chance. Parents are only responsible for providing an alternative option, but let your child decide.